Quakers and Marriage Equality

quakers-support-gay-marriageWith the recent announcement by the Religious Society of Friends that the church would now allow and officiate same-sex marriages, another wall has been conquered in the fight for marriage equality.

A blog post over at Southwest Libertarians sums it all up pretty well:

I have little doubt that by the time the main stream media wake up to this declaration, we will have headlines screaming ‘Quakers to marry gays’, and all the familiar knee jerk reactions and quotations from the bible condemning homosexuality. They will be missing the point.

Society has contrived through various means, medical and otherwise, to take away the role of marriage, and ‘parents’, in the production line of children.

What is left of marriage has nothing to confine it to a man and a woman. The Quakers, not being controlled by a ‘book of rules’, nor a man in a floor length party frock, are merely acknowledging that.

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Catholics May Be Gays’ Best Friends

catholic-momA fascinating article in USA Today on a new study by two Columbia University political science professors describes how the proportion of Catholics in a state is a great determinant of how effectively the state defends gay rights.

Want to predict which state might move next to legalize same-sex marriage? You might count Catholics. The higher their percentage of the population, the more likely the state is to… support gay rights.

This counter-intuitive finding is brought to you with a tip of two hats — mine to Mark Silk at Spiritual Politics and his to Robbie Jones who led Silk to a new study soon by be published by two Columbia University political scientists.

The main thrust of the study was to examine whether there is “pro-gay bias in policy making” (the authors conclude no) or a tyranny of local majorities “in which anti-gay majorities trump minority rights” (the authors again say no).

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To Marry or Not To Marry

heartA thoughtful editorial from Carlos Ball, a law professor at Rutgers University, at The Huffington Post on the significance of the battle over same-sex marriage within the queer community:

For almost two decades, the organized gay rights movement, led by groups such as the Human Rights Campaign and Lambda Legal, have been pushing hard for marriage. But there have also been LGBT rights activists who have questioned whether it makes sense to focus so much of the movement’s energies and resources on seeking to expand an institution that has for so long contributed to the subordination of women and that has also served to discriminate against those who choose not to marry.

These critics argue that our society unjustly privileges marriages at the expense of other types of relationships. Our current laws make a slew of crucial benefits — from health insurance to social security survivorship payments to tax advantages — dependent on marital status. Rather than limiting eligibility for these benefits to individuals who are married, critics propose that everyone be allowed to choose one designated beneficiary. It should not matter, the critics argue, whether the two individuals in question are married or even whether they are in an intimate relationship.

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Santorum Speaks for NOM

santoThe guys behind Dabble Post have information on and analysis of the letter written by Former Senator Rick Santorum to donors of the National Organization for Marriage (NOM):

In a sign of the impending battle over the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), the National Organization for Marriage (NOM) on Monday sent out a letter to its supporters from Former Senator Rick Santorum (R-PA). The letter uses archaic language (at least relative to the radical developments of the past year) and dates Santorum as an out-of-touch bigot circa 2004. The move comes on the heels of NOM two weeks ago opening up an office in Washington, DC. Representative Jerrold Nadler (D-NY) plans to introduce a DOMA repeal in Congress in the coming weeks.
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Maine’s Citizens Aren’t Fighting for a Referendum

From The Daily Kos:

As of this morning, Stand for Marriage Maine, the lead group opposing LD 1020, the law that allows same-sex couples in Maine to marry, has received $343,689.50 in contributions (link - pdf warning).

Of that total, $400 has come from individuals. That’s right, four people have each ponied up one hundred bucks in support of a people’s veto, while groups like James Dobson’s Focus on the Family, the Knights of Columbus, the Roman Catholic Diocese of Portland, and the National Organization for Marriage have contributed the rest.

Signatures, Referendums, and Fraud

When referendums come to a vote in any state that are designed to prevent marriage equality, always be suspicious of how such referendums ended up on the ballot. From A Liberal’s Hit List:

While in Port Angeles, Washington, I stopped at WalMart for a quick minute. As I was walking into WalMart, I was stopped by a signature gatherer who asked my opinion on same-sex marriage. I told him that I am gay and we had a long conversation about equal rights.

Then it got even more interesting. He approached a woman and asked her if she supports same-sex marriage. When she said yes, he handed her the clipboard to sign the referendum. She though she was signing in favor of equal marriage. He tricked her, right in front of me, on camera. I called him out on it.

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GOP: Please Keep ‘em Coming

197950010_147bbf8547She may not be running for a New York State Senate seat, where a pro-equality Republican could do some real good, but it’s great to see the GOP putting forward Assemblywoman Scozzafava for a national office. From The Advocate:

The race for a vacant U.S. House seat in New York is heating up as the state’s GOPers have found their candidate in a pro-gay state assembly member. Dede Scozzafava was nominated to run for a seat that will be vacated by Rep. John McHugh, who was tapped to become secretary of the Army in June.

Scozzafava was one of a handful of Republican lawmakers who supported a marriage equality bill that passed the assembly in the spring. The bill is still up for consideration in the senate following a monthlong party-line coup that sidelined several pieces of crucial legislation.

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Anti-Equality is still Anti-Logical

302846411_9237325780Matt Galli, a writer from Christian Today Magazine, lays out what he perceives to be the logical and nonreligious argument against marriage equality.  While perceptive of the current state of affairs in how the debate has moved forward, Galli’s piece still falls short on the implications of marriage equality.

Galli’s argument rests on two thoughts: we’re all sinful, so Christians need to get their act together before bashing (my word, not his) gays and their fight for marital rights; and secondly, that gay people hate children.

While I agree with the first claim, that it is convenient for people who cheat on their wives (Gov. Sanford, Senator Ensign, and Newt Gingrich) to decide that the romantic thoughts of another human are impure and unworthy of state recognition, the second claim is one in which the kind of “gay” Galli suggests is the hippie, erotic, pedophile of 60’s American folklore.

He refuses to accept that LGBT citizens across the country not only desire to raise children, but have the ability to create said children, care for said children, and legally be recognized as the parents of said children. Sure, it may be more difficult of a process, but no study shows that it is any less of a loving home environment.

The arguments these zealots use to dismiss marriage equality are patently false. When Galli explains how followers of this stereotypical view of LGBT individuals are criticized and attacked, he fails to understand that views based on stereotypes (don’t let an Asian be your driver, a black man be your teller, or a woman be your manager) are to be mocked, not celebrated as the diversity that makes America great.

Whenever faced with this non-religious series of arguments, remember that they are only being used because the religious ones have been rejected, the moral ones have been rejected, and the scientific ones have been rejected. The “mom and dad” paradigm is the last wall to conquer, and if children of single parents (Barack Obama, Julie Roberts, Alicia Keys, Bill Clinton, Tom Cruise, Ed Bradley, and more) can be successful, the wall has too many cracks in it to stand.

Give Galli’s piece a chance, and upon conclusion, leave a comment on the article or simply remember how you felt upon reading his hollow words.

Because, to answer Galli’s title’s rhetorical question: “Yes, it’s over.”

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McCaskill and Missouri’s Marriages

2798606788_05e8e3d7e5You’ve probably already heard it, but it’s important to really think about the implications of what Senator Claire McCaskill, perhaps unwittingly, on the topic of gay marriage on her Twitter account a couple days ago. In her tweet, she suggested that, just like gun laws should be on a per-state basis that only affects that jurisdiction, so should gay marriage policy be housed within each policy’s respective state and prevented from being applicable in others.

We love McCaskill and feels she’s done a better job than most on reaching across the aisle and representing her constituents. But this is just not cool.

From Pam’s House Blend:

She may not hate gay people, but she doesn’t think that they deserve to be equal in all ways under the law. If she has a religious objection that’s one matter, but we are talking about civil marriage and reciprocity in the same way a drivers license is recognized. What part of it does the Senator not understand? She needs to explain herself. Certainly she must have LGBT on her staff — does she think that they are lesser human beings?

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“A mother should not have to adopt her own child”

2momsFrom today’s WaPo:

Lesbians in the District no longer will need the written consent of their partners to adopt children born to their partners through artificial insemination, under a new law that took effect Saturday.

The name of a consenting spouse or unmarried partner will appear on the child’s birth certificate as the legal parent, a status that previously had to be obtained by same-sex parents through a complicated adoption process.

“With the enactment of this measure, the District has become the first jurisdiction in the country to enact a statute specifically providing children born through artificial insemination with two legal parents from the beginning even when those parents are a same-sex or different-sex unmarried couple. A similar law goes into effect January 1, 2010, in New Mexico,” according to a news release the groups issued today.